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Monday, September 12, 2005

Hard to get

I don't get it. There's this tacit understanding in today's society that men 'love the chase' and women should play hard-to-get.

Is there really any guy who believes this? If I'm rejected or getting negative signals, that's it. It's like flipping a switch. If you don't give me the impression that you want me too, that's not a turn-on - it's the opposite.

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2 Comments:

Anonymous ilyka said...

That'd be my feeling on it if I were a guy, and as it is, I don't like "playing" anything. If I have to work at it that hard--well, I just won't, is all. I'm sorry, but since vibrators were invented, there simply isn't any point playing head games just to get some.

But I have known guys who like hard-to-get and my admittedly half-assed theory about it is, for them it's like being the number-one sales guy in the department, or being able to bench-press more weight than anyone else at the gym, etc. It's more about proving to themselves that they're The Best than it is about romance or sex or whatever.

02:00  
Blogger dr.dna said...

yeah, but those guys are the exception, not the rule.

15:10  

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